Beginner's Sex Toy Guide

Everything you need to know to find the perfect toy for solo and partner play, masturbation, sexual wellness, and self-discovery.

 

Discover, Explore, and Enjoy

If you’ve ever felt nervous or curious about buying your first sex toy, you’re in good company. Every one of our customers starts somewhere, and exploring pleasure is one of the healthiest and most empowering things you can do for yourself.

Sex toys aren’t just for masturbation; they’re for anyone who wants to feel good, learn about their body, or add something exciting to their routine. Think of them as tools for pleasure, confidence, and connection—with yourself and your partner.

At Pink Lifestyle, we believe pleasure should be easy, safe, and shame-free. Whether you’re curious about vibrators, dildos, or something more adventurous, this guide will walk you through everything you need to know before you buy.

Where Do I Start?

Ready to explore? Start your journey by asking the typical questions most beginners ask on the internet. Here are answers to the most common questions beginners ask:

What is “Body-Safe,” and Why Does it Matter?

Quality sex toys will always have a “Body-safe” label, which means the materials are non-toxic, non-porous, and gentle on your skin. The gold standard is 100% medical-grade silicone—soft, smooth, and entirely safe for intimate use. Always invest in toys made from quality body-safe materials so your pleasure stays worry-free.

Do I Really Need Lube?

Absolutely. Lube makes every kind of play smoother and a lot more enjoyable. It reduces friction, enhances sensation, and helps you feel calm and relaxed—especially when you’re exploring something new. Just remember this rule: use water-based lube with silicone toys to protect the material.

How Do I clean my toy?

Keeping your toy clean is essential and straightforward. Wash it with warm water and mild soap, or use a toy cleaner before and after use. Proper care not only extends your toy’s lifespan but also keeps everything fresh and safe for next time. We have these instructions on every sex toy product.

 

 

Explore the World of Pleasure

Now for the fun part—finding what you love. Here are the top collections that we recommend to most beginners. 

 

Vibrators (Bullet & Wand)

Small, discreet, and great for travel. Perfect for external (clitoral) pleasure or full-body stimulation. Whether you want a subtle tingle or deep, rumbly vibrations, vibrators are the easiest way to guarantee pleasure.

Dildos

Simple and satisfying. Dildos are non-vibrating sex toys that let you explore internal pleasure at your own pace. They come in different shapes and sizes so that you can find the perfect fit for your body and comfort level.

 

Male Masturbators

Designed to take masturbation and solo play to the next level. From soft sleeves to textured strokers, these toys mimic real sensations, making every experience feel fresh and exciting.

 

Cock Rings

Fun for couples and great for stamina. Cock rings help maintain stronger erections and enhance shared pleasure. It’s a simple way to make intimacy last longer and feel more intense.

 

 

Adult Toys Come in Many Forms & Designs - How Should I Choose?

 

Tip 1: Start small (and keep it simple)

If it’s your first time, there’s no need to splurge right away. Begin with something affordable—under $30 is a good rule of thumb. Small vibrators like bullets or eggs are great starters because they’re discreet, beginner-friendly, and perfect for exploring solo or with a partner.

 

Tip 2: Focus on clitoral stimulation first.

Keep the measuring tape around your back at the band level and measure across the fullest part of your chest, ensuring the tape is held snugly against your body and parallel to the ground. Take a few deep breaths to let the tape rest on its most comfortable position (but not too loose!). If it falls on the half-inch, just round up. That’s your bust size!

 

Tip 3: Level up with G-spot play.

When you’re ready for something more, explore G-spot vibrators. These toys feature a curved tip designed to target your internal sweet spot. You can choose from smooth or textured designs and even try options with multiple functions like vibration and rotation for enhanced stimulation.

 

Tip 4: Communicate with your partner.

If you’re shopping or playing together, talk about what feels comfortable—whether it’s the toy’s size, texture, or intensity. Open communication builds trust and ensures both of you have a positive, fun experience every time.