Sometimes it starts with one painful attempt. You might tell yourself, “Maybe I was just nervous.” Then you try again, hoping it will be different. You tell yourself to relax. You want your body to cooperate. But the moment penetration is about to happen...
We finally have a science-backed answer worth unpacking. Dr. Malik, who has built a reputation for cutting through shame and misinformation around sexual health, didn't just dismiss the question. She dug into it. And honestly? Her take changed the way...
Vaginismus Explained: Causes, Symptoms & Solutions
Vaginismus refers to the involuntary tightening of pelvic muscles that makes vaginal insertion painful. Many clinicians now group these symptoms under genito-pelvic pain/penetration disorder (GPPPD) to capture the interaction of fear, pain and difficulty...
3x3 Rule of Intimacy
If you are a modern Asian woman, this might feel familiar. You are answering emails while replying in the family WhatsApp chat. You are mentally tracking your parents’ appointments, your children’s homework, your boss’ expectations, your in-laws’ comments...
Foreplay That Starts Long Before the Bedroom
Most people think of foreplay as the moments right before sex, the kisses, the touches, the teasing. But foreplay doesn’t start when you step into the bedroom. It begins much earlier in the mind, in how we connect, and in the small, intentional ways we...
How to Choose and Use Your First Dildo (2025 Starter Guide)
So, you’re new to sex toys and thinking about buying your first dildo. Exploring your own pleasure is one of the most empowering things you can do.
The excitement of self-discovery can make the process of finding the right dildo an enjoyable and pleasurable...
If you’ve ever scrolled through a sea of vibrators online and wondered, “Wait…do I need one for my clit? My G-spot? Both?!” — you’re not alone. With so many shapes, sizes, and techy features, choosing the right vibe can feel a little overwhelming.
Sexual Longevity: How to Have Great Sex at Any Age
"We still care for each other so much. But the spark... it's changed. Is that normal?"
I get asked this question all the time in my practice. The short answer? Absolutely normal.
Look, sex doesn't come with an expiration date. But it definitely evolves...