2021 Valentine’s Day Gift Guide

2021 Valentine’s Day Gift Guide

There is no cap to pleasure – alone or otherwise! These are 10 Cupid-approved recommendations (what and why) directly from our Resident Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee!


  1. Iroha – Stick Lilac x Black Lipstick Vibrator 


Since iroha lipstick vibrator is compact, discreet, gentle on the skin, this is one pleasurable indulgence you should gift to your beloved! Besides being easy to slip into a pocket or purse, this lipstick vibrator is easy to hold, waterproof and has with a soft silicone tip – ready for use whenever you are whether in the bath, the bedroom, or on the road! I am recommending this for people who want something fuss-free, user-friendly, good for a laugh, and pretty in pink!


  1. Iroha Plus – Kushi Nezumi Nadeshiko Silicon Rechargeable Clitoral Massager 


 Shaped like a seashell, this iroha+ Kushi is so squelchy soft because of its pioneering Soft Touch material. Besides featuring 5 vibrating strengths and 2 rhythm patterns, Kushi is adorned with multiple ribs on the surface for dynamic sensations. Kushi comes in pink and vanilla colour. I recommend Kushi to people who would like support connecting with their femininity and sensuality.


  1. Lovense – Lush 3 App Controlled Oscillating G Spot Vibrator


Lush 3 by Lovense is a remote G-spot vibrator. In the latest model, the charging port was updated to a magnetic one for an easier charging process.

The fixed tail makes sure the toy “hugs” your body, stays in place and provides deeper and more intense rumbly vibrations.


  1. Lovense – Ferri App Controlled Panty Vibrator 


The latest addition to the line of smart toys by Lovense, Ferri is a remote-controlled panty vibrator intended for powerful clitoral stimulation. It is quiet, making it perfect for public play or long-distance relationships (no matter how far away you are from each other). This hot pink and black vibrator promises to unleash the mischievous side of you whether it is a night out with the girls, or romantic dinner with your beloved.


  1.   Sutil – Hathor Original Pure Water Based Lubricant 60ml  


I still can’t get over how amazing this lubricant is. Made with 7 simple botanical eco-certified ingredients, this water-based lubricant is slippery, non-sticky, long lasting! It is Gylcerin, Paraben, Petroleum and Gluten Free, as well as vegan, condom and toy friendly. Besides coming in a biodegradable lube, it contains Horny Goat Weed which is believed to enhance libido in both men and women. This is one lubricant I have been highly recommending to all clients!


  1.   Tenga – Egg Cool Edition Wavy Masturbator


Designed for one-time, disposable use, the Tenga Egg Series may look small, but their super-stretchable material can fit penis owners of almost any size! Manufactured from TPE material, Tenga eggs are free from phthalate and latex and are used to stimulate the head of the penis or be stretched for complete coverage. The inside of this egg male toy is covered in sunburst-shaped patterns that promise to become a stimulant during the session. I am recommending this as the perfect companion for a pleasure-filled session.


  1.   Tenga – Svr Plus Rechargeable Couple Vibrating Love Ring X1.5 Stronger


The Tenga SVR+ stands for Smart Vibe Ring and as the name suggest is smart! You can use for individual and partnered use. It is made of body-safe silicon, compact, light, waterproof (up to 50cm) and multi-functional – it triples as a penis ring, vibrating ring, as well as bullet vibrator. With 1.5x more power than the original SVR Series, you can have intensified passionate nights and enjoy the choice of its 8 vibration modes with 5 vibrating strength and 3 rhythm modes. I joke it can even be used as a key chain holder!


  1.   Lovense – Edge 2 App Controlled Prostate Massager


Lovense Edge 2 is used to stimulate the prostate and the adjustable head ensures that it hits the right spot. The bulb and neck have been optimized to provide more stability and even stronger P-Spot stimulation – this means hands-free fun and that it stays put! Like its counterparts, Lovense Edge 2 is App and Bluetooth Enabled which means it is suitable for discreet public play besides solo play or foreplay – it’s all play. If you’re up for prostate play, this is the one!


  1.   Tenga – Fliphole Red Male Masturbator


The Tenga Fliphole Red Male Masturbator comes with a one hand control pad which lets you control the stimulation. Crafted with TPE material, its densely packed protrusions will brush along the shaft, and a stream of smoothly formed ribs will gently tickle the head of the penis. You simply flip open the case for use and facilitates easy washing and drying. It’s not about rushing through pleasure!


  1. Fifty Shades of Grey – Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit


Ignite the flames of sensual desires by restricting the movements of your partner before showering seductive kisses over their bare-skinned body. This black introductory kit comes with wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, and an extra-soft blindfold. These universal sized accessories can be adjusted to fit all bed sizes. Tip: Seek consent from your partner, establish safe words, and their surrender will be sweeter for it.


There you go! My 10 recommended products for you this Valentine’s Day. Did any tickle your imagination? Have a great Valentine’s Day!



Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice for more than 12 years, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore. She is also a Red Tent Women’s Circles Facilitator from Star of Ishtar.

Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Resident Sexologist for PinkLifestyle.com; as well appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-BetweenOrgasmic YogaFrom Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.


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